Books From Your Therapist

Creating Meaning & Joy on Your Birthday with Tamar Hurwitz-Fleming

Books From Your Therapist

Show Notes

This month we’re talking to Tamar Hurwitz-Fleming, author of How to Have a Happy Birthday. We chatted about why it's important to honour your birthday and celebrate yourself. The second book we discuss is Elizabeth Gilbert's inspirational Big Magic.

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