Show Notes
In this episode, Dr. John Ogrodniczuk and I uncover how to tell when narcissism becomes more than just confidence. We explore why some individuals shift between feeling superior and feeling worthless, and what this reveals about a deeper instability in their sense of self. In this part of our conversation, we cover a lot more, such as that which leads to internal fragmentation and identity diffusion. If you are interested in a consultation or seeking virtual therapy services, Dr. Mazzel...
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