The Catholic Therapist

Is Self-Love Catholic? A Catholic Therapist Explains

The Catholic Therapist

Show Notes

Can you love yourself the way God loves you? In this episode, Catholic therapist Adam Cross, LMFT (#116623) unpacks an unexpected fruit of intimacy with God: a healthy, holy love of self rooted in being God's beloved. Topics covered:

Daily Lectio Divina and time with the Word as a bedrock of faith How intimacy with God reveals how he sees us Reclaiming "self-love" as stewardship of body, mind, and soul What "die to yourself" does and does not mean Why loving your neighbor as yourself is hard when you are harsh with yourself Your God-given needs and limits as an invitation back to the Father

Before we can be a gift to others, we have to know we are already a gift. Sponsored by Ascension Press. Alto is a monthly companion with the daily Mass readings, Lauds, Compline, and saint reflections. Get 10% off with code ADAM10: https://ascension-press.linkjolt.io/l/adam-cross Have questions? Visit my website: adamcrossmft.com Adam Cross, LMFT #116623

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