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How To Turn Jealousy Into Your Biggest Motivator

Oi, Let's Talk

Show Notes

We're back, with part 3 of THE FRIENDSHIP SERIES and we need to talk about the thing nobody in your friend group is saying out loud; jealousy.

Whether it's your friend landing the dream job, the relationship, the body, or the followers, that sting of comparison is something almost every woman has felt.

And yet? We never talk about it.

In this episode, we're getting uncomfortable and going there. Because jealousy doesn't have to be the thing that silently ruins your friendships it can actually be the thing that lights a fire under you.

We're breaking down why comparison is so normal, how to flip the script on that threatened feeling, and why her winning doesn't mean you're losing. There's room for all of us and it's time to actually believe that.

If she can do it, so can I.

That's the energy we're leaving with.

In this episode: - Why jealousy in friendships is more common than you think - How to stop letting comparison shrink you - Flipping the script: using her success as proof it's possible for you too - Why lifting each other up is always the move - Community Q&A

Part 3 of 4 The Friendship Series Missed the others? Listen to “How To Navigate Outgrowing Friendships” & “How To Be A Better Friend” NOW, run besties.

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