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History's super confused ideas about women's sex lives (with Kate Lister)

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Show Notes

The ancient Greeks believed a woman's womb wandered through her body and made her ill. Medieval Europeans believed a woman's orgasm was necessary for conception. And the Victorians believed masturbation would drive you to madness. Sex historian Dr. Kate Lister — host of Betwixt the Sheets and author of Flick: A History of Sexual Pleasure — joins me for a tour through the wildly strange, often infuriating history of women's sexuality. For most of that history, women were believed to be the more sex-crazed gender. What can we say, girls will be girls...

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On this episode:

Isabelle Roughol - Host

Kate Lister - Guest

What do you think?Read & comment at broadhistory.com Email me: [email protected] Jump to:

(00:00) - AUDIO 07 Kate Lister

(01:28) - "Girls will be girls": women as the emotionally unstable, hypersexed gender

(03:58) - Why is women's sexuality so much more policed th an men's?

(06:02) - The medicalisation and pathologizing of sexuality or the Victorian terror of masturbation

(09:52) - The wandering womb

(11:38) - Women as baby-crazed, emotional beings

(13:42) - Are we talking about the menopause too much?

(14:53) - The first woman to describe a female orgasm (she was a medieval nun)

(19:52) - "Sex means putting a penis into something"

(22:30) - Why lesbians have been relatively left alone

(25:53) - The invention of privacy

(28:24) - Victorian middle-class morality and the angel in the house

(32:04) - Empire and the racialisation of female purity

(34:56) - "Go and ask your mother"

(39:21) - Where does a sex historian find sources?

(41:01) - Why researching the history of pleasure matters

(44:44) - The final question

(47:34) - Conclusion

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