
The Initiation of Parenthood as a Doorway to Ancestral Healing, with Thomas Hübl
What is Collective Healing?Show Notes
Hosted by Matthew Green. Produced by J'aime Rothbard. Do we need 'parenting schools'? What does it mean to be initiated into the archetypal power of being a mother or father? And what responsibility do we hold to build the kind of healing communities that can nourish us in our daily lives – and allow us to nourish others in return? In this second part of a conversation first published on Point of Relation, Pocket Project co-founder Thomas Hübl builds on a question about the transmission of ancestral trauma from parent to child to set forth an expansive vision of the power of healing-oriented communities to support us through critical moments. Hearing Matthew's story of the shock he experienced at unexpectedly having to serve as midwife during his daughter's homebirth, Thomas speaks about the many ways 'generous' communities can resource us to face these kinds of initiatory challenges. Thomas also emphasises the importance of inviting ancestral resources into our community-building efforts and to support our families to serve as healthy ecoystems for the next generation. "The more we heal our ancestral wounds, the healthier the family becomes. The atmosphere of the family is not just created by [living] people: A family is the relational network and coherence that the ancestors create. And that's where the new generation lands," Thomas explains. "When there's a lot of trauma, that information field is depressed, fragmented, polarized, numb. And as we heal, it becomes more alive, more creative, more vital, more warm, more supportive. And that's the ecosystem in which our children grow up in." This prompts Matthew to share a glimpse of the ancestral echoes that underpinned his commitment to covering wars in his early journalistic career – echoes that were revealed during his participation in the two-year Timeless Wisdom Training with Thomas and his team. The conversation brings core principles of community-building and ancestral healing to life by exploring real-world experiences of fatherhood, career and relationships through the lens of Thomas' work. Further Resources: Point of Relation podcast (with Thomas Hübl) Thomas Hübl Thoms Hübl's Instagram Pocket Project About Thomas Hübl: Thomas Hübl, PhD, is a renowned teacher, author, and international facilitator who works within the complexity of systems and cultural change, integrating the core insights of the great wisdom traditions and mysticism with the discoveries of science. Since the early 2000s, he has led large-scale events and courses on the healing of collective trauma. His new book, co-authored with Richard C. Schwartz, PhD, is called Releasing Our Burdens: A Guide to Healing Individual, Ancestral and Collective Trauma. Thomas is also the author of Attuned: Practicing Interdependence to Heal Our Trauma—and Our World and Healing Collective Trauma: A Process for Integrating Our Intergenerational and Cultural Wounds. He has served as an advisor and guest faculty for universities and organizations, as a coach for CEOs and organizational leaders, and is currently a visiting scholar at the Wyss Institute at Harvard University.
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Hosted by Matthew Green. Produced by J'aime Rothbard. Register for the Community Call Building Islands of Coherence: Growing a Global Movement for Collective Healing on October 21 When Gaye Donaldson first encountered Systemic Constellation Work in 1994, the revelation she experienced made new sense of her life up to that point — and propelled her onto an unexpected path. Gaye has since spent more than 30 years exploring the practice, also known as Family Constellations, in which a facilitator leads a group of people through a process aimed at mapping and resolving unconscious patterns shaping the lives of individuals, families or larger groups. Gaye continues to work with personal and family issues, in organisations, within the creative arts, and with the land. She has also been a teacher at the UK's Centre for Systemic Constellations for over two decades. In this episode, Gaye becomes the first guest to bring a Systemic Constellations lens to the question at the heart of What Is Collective Healing? — namely, how can we support people to integrate the collective and intergenerational trauma fuelling the world's interlocking crises? In her dialogue with Matthew, Gaye emphasises both the importance of discerning what is truly our work to do, and assuming the posture of "not knowing" that Constellation facilitators learn to hold. Their conversation covers topics including: Learning to ask: "What's mine and what's not mine?" How we get entangled in other people's stories Reawakening our right place in relationship to the planet A Systemic Constellation with a descendant of a Holocaust survivor Working in Kairos time Experiencing ancestral grief from World War Two Family stories: The compulsion to complete what is incomplete The Five Generational Imperative Working with victim-perpetrator dynamics in organisations When we tell the whole story, the system is complete A big part of the mission of What Is Collective Healing? is to provide a platform where practitioners of diverse approaches to trauma integration can come into generative dialogue. We loved our deep and inspiring dive with Gaye into Systemic Constellations, an increasingly influential approach that's already familiar to many in the Pocket Project community. If you enjoy exploring multiple approaches to trauma work, we recommend these previous episodes featuring other pioneering practitioners: Organic Intelligence®: Activating Self-Healing Through the Power of Pleasure and Joy, with Steven Hoskinson The Wholeness Work: A Precise Path to Freedom, with Connirae Andreas Further Resources: Gaye Donaldson (website) Centre for Systemic Constellations (website) Centre for Systemic Constellations (LinkedIn) Centre for Systemic Constellations (Facebook) Centre for Systemic Constellations (Instagram) Pocket Project: Pocket Project Global Social Witnessing Calls Pocket Project About Gaye Donaldson: Gaye Donaldson is a systemic constellations facilitator, trainer and consultant. She experienced Constellation Work for the first time in 1994 and it changed her life in a very personal way, but the experience of the work also made sense of her whole story up to that moment. Now, decades on from this revelation and opening, Gaye has continued to deepen her understanding of the philosophy and methodology, and she has been teaching the work to wonderfully diverse student groups for over 20 years through the Centre for Systemic Constellations, the first systemic Constellation school in the UK, which she heads up. Gaye uses the whole-system Constellation approach with personal and family issues, in organisations, within the creative arts, most particularly film and theatre, and also with the land. She is based in the South-West of England and has a herd of Icelandic horses who teach and restore her. She is a mother to five grown-ups, and grand-mother to a further five children. Her joy is to see the work expand into where it is needed and to evolve n
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You are warmly invited to join Kosha and Adrian Wagner of the Pocket Project's research team, who has been deeply involved in the Conditions for Collective Trauma Map, for a live presentation: Register for the community call Mapping the Conditions for Collective Trauma – From Data to Deeper Awareness on October 8 Hosted by Kosha Joubert Produced by J'aime Rothbard. We're joined by Pocket Project co-founder Thomas Hübl and technologist, facilitator and researcher Max Roth to explore the new Conditions for Collective Trauma Map, which goes live on October 8. Please sign up for an event introducing the map here. Developed by the Pocket Project in collaboration with Max's organisation Connecting Intelligence, this three-dimensional visualisation draws on dozens of datasets to make the conditions associated with collective trauma – such as conflict, interpersonal violence, environmental degradation and forced migration — more visible. The map also points to societal resilience by representing factors such as democracy, peace, gender equality and wellbeing. The aim is to support a wide range of actors — from policymakers, researchers and philanthropists to governments, international organisations and relief agencies — to locate their work in a wider landscape, and recognise the need for integrated approaches. A wealth of data embedded in the map can also be used to support public dialogue on how to address the lasting legacy of collective trauma fields like colonialism, slavery and resource extraction. As Thomas and Max explain, the Conditions for Collective Trauma Map does not attempt to measure how traumatised a society is: It offers a landscape for inquiry, intended as a starting point for asking deeper questions. Their conversation with Kosha explores themes including: Genesis of the vision for the map
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