How Do We Manage?

How Do We Manage Not Repeating the Same Mistakes in Relationships?

How Do We Manage?

Show Notes

If you ever feel as though your relationship is stuck, or you find yourself making the same mistakes over and over again, this episode is for you. Jillian Turecki has helped thousands of people around the world transform their relationships and heal themselves from the inside out.

Through coaching, workshops, a podcast, newsletter, and social media community she reaches millions with her compassionate, direct and research-driven insight.

Her new book, “It Begins With You” provides a breakdown of the nine lessons she learnt firsthand when going through her own divorce, and examines how, for real relationship solutions, we must look first at ourselves.

Jillian and Stephanie talk relationship patterns and how to avoid them, lessons we learn from childhood, and how difficult it can be to really take a long hard look in the mirror. And Jillian reminds us that while the journey to healing and self-love may be challenging, it’s never too late to start.

Resources & Links

www.jillianturecki.com

@jillianturecki

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Host: Stephanie von Bismarck

Guest: Jillian Turecki

Producer: Tory Pope

Production Manager: Angela Crago

Executive Producer: Ellie Di Martino

The series was recorded and edited at Pod Shop studios.

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