Grown Men Playing with Toys

14 - Command Points, a Codex, and Chores: Balancing 40K Goals with Adulting

Grown Men Playing with Toys

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Send us Fan Mail Adulting is hard and life gets busy.....especially if you are a try-hard who gets over-invested in their hobbies like Erik and Steve. In this episode, the guys will talk about balancing their 40K goals with life's challenges and how they fit it all in. They'll compare how Steve prepared for his recently completed marathon and how it oddly mirrors Erik's approach for staying current and up to date with Warhammer 40K. They'll discuss how both activities require a c...

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