152- ADHD and the Guilt of Unfinished Dreams
Decluttering Untangled with Heather Tingle : How to declutter when you're overwhelmed, ADHD or AutisticShow Notes
Send me a text message about this podcast Summary Heather Tingle shares a personal reflection on why decluttering sometimes means releasing more than objects. In this episode, she unpacks how a box of old business supplies surfaced an abandoned subscription box idea and what that revealed about identity, sunk cost, and the difference between a dream and the stuff attached to it. Letting go of stored items can also mean letting go of guilt, without giving up the possibility of a future versio...
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Send me a text message about this podcast Summary Can’t get through the door of your room of doom, never mind start decluttering it? This episode answers one of the questions from DeclutterCon that we didn’t get time for on the day: what do you do when you can’t even get into the room, and where on earth do you start? You might be surprised by where the first step actually is (and it isn’t decluttering). I share the one thing you should never do when you’re faced with piles you can’t get pas...
Send me a text message about this podcast Summary In this episode, Heather Tingle answers common questions about organising zones in the home, focusing on whether doubling up on zones like bedding and tech causes problems or offers benefits. She provides practical advice on system consistency and how to decide the best approach for your space. Key topics The importance of choosing a system for organising zonesPros and cons of having multiple zones for the same itemsHow to decide whether ...
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