A Podcast with Charlie Swenson - To Hell and Back

Long Grieving, Complicated Joy, and Flowers That Grow Around a Hole in the Heart – Episode 102

A Podcast with Charlie Swenson - To Hell and Back

Show Notes

In June of 2018, eight months following the death of her two-year-old son to the Sudden Unexplained Death in Childhood (SUDC), Natalia Garcia joined this podcast for three episodes to describe the catastrophic loss and the ensuing grief process marked by her courage and skill in facing her vulnerabilities. Now, five years since the loss, she returns to the podcast to talk about the longer arc of the process of grieving her son and things that have happened since then. As before, this is a moving and inspiring story of courage that deals with a panoply of issues faced in any longer-term grief process.

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