No One Told Us

Episode 82: Weaning Methods, Challenges and Tips with Candace St. John

No One Told Us

Show Notes

Have you been thinking about weaning your baby or toddler and you have NO clue how to start? Daytime or nighttime first? What if they cry for it? How long will it take?

All of these questions and MORE answered in today's episode with Rachael and "Weaning Pal" Candace St. John, MPH, CLC. This week, Rachael and Candace emphasize the need to normalize extended breastfeeding and dive into the emotional aspects of the weaning process (both for parent and baby!), as well as discuss the complexities of weaning from breastfeeding- addressing common concerns such as guilt, attachment, sleep associations, and the right age to wean. Here's what you'll hear inside this informative episode:

Candace's Journey into Weaning Expertise

Rach and Candace's Personal Weaning Experiences and Strategies

Navigating Boundaries or "Loving Limits" While Weaning

Understanding Nursing Aversions and Their Impact

Navigating Weaning Guilt

Is there a "Right" Age for Weaning?

Managing Weaning-Related Depression

Addressing Picky Eating During Weaning

Alternatives to Cow's Milk

Distinguishing Between Comfort and Hunger Needs

+ so much more!

About Candace: I’m a public health professional (MPH), pediatric sleep specialist, & Certified Lactation Counselor (CLC, #34044) — but most importantly, I am a mom of one weanling! I hold a Master of Public Health from Boston University School of Public Health & worked as an Epidemiologist for 5.5 years in a rural hospital setting. After becoming a mom (& having the most tumultuous start to breastfeeding my baby), I realized that there are many gaps in parenting education & practice. Now, I provide evidence-informed guidance & support to parents in order to feel confident at the end of their breastfeeding journey!

You can connect with Candace and get support on your journey on Instagram @yourweaningpal

Rachael is a mom of 3, founder of Hey, Sleepy Baby, and the host of this podcast. Instagram | Tiktok | Website

✨For sleep support and resources, visit heysleepybaby.com and follow @heysleepybaby on Instagram! 😴☁️🤎✨

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