The Don't Buy Her Flowers Podcast

Sex, Relationships & Motherhood: What have we learned? With Zoe Blaskey

The Don't Buy Her Flowers Podcast

Show Notes

Zoe Blaskey from The Motherkind Podcast joins with Steph and the Don’t Buy Her Flowers podcast for this end of year special! Steph and Zoe have each chosen three guests they spoke with on their own podcasts in 2022 to discuss and see what each other took from the guests.

The conversation centres around motherhood, identity, relationships and sex. Zoe has chosen Psychologists Dr Rick Hanson and Dr Becky Kennedy, both experts in motherhood, family and relationships, who speak brilliantly about our standards and expectations, where they might have come from and how we can lower them. Steph chose Dr Karen Gurney AKA The Sex Doctor and Laura Danger, who is a facilitator of the Fair Play method and wants to help couples understand and better divide the mental load. And then both Steph and Zoe interviewed Matt Fray, author of This Is How Your Marriage Ends. Some really beefy topics and thought provoking conversations.

And thank you for listening in 2022! Please rate, review and subscribe and we’ll be back with more in 2023.

Zoe Blaskey Instagram Zoe’s website and information on coaching Steph’s Instagram Dr Rick Hanson’s episode with Zoe, Instagram and website Dr Karen Gurney’s episode with Steph, Instagram and website Dr Becky Kennedy’s, Instagram and book Good Inside Laura Danger AKA @thatdarnchat’s episode with Steph, Instagram and website Matt Fray’s Instagram and website. Matt’s episode with Steph and with Zoe Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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