Show Notes
Starting at just twelve years old, smoking was simply part of the landscape of Dr. Bill’s life. He loved smoking so much that he never reflected on the health consequences or felt any social pressure to stop. For decades, the thought of quitting never even crossed his mind while smoking up to three packs a day. Everything changed instantly one day when a sudden realization forced him to look at his future in a completely different way. He went from a lifelong lover of smoking to being successful on his very first attempt to quit. About Dr. Bill: Dr. W.J. (Bill) Brendle is a paranormal scholar and historian of the unseen. His fascination with cryptids, witchcraft, and the paranormal began in childhood after encounters that defied rational explanation, sparking a lifelong quest to seek answers and explore the forces that shape human belief. He holds a Ph.D. in Metaphysics with a specialization in parapsychology and has studied and practiced folk magick, Tarot, scrying, and esoteric Masonry. Brendle is the author of The Cryptids & Monsters of North Carolina and Heretics of the Harvest Moon: The True Story of the Witch Trials. He is also the writer, producer, and co-host of the 4 Ever Paranormal podcast, where stories of the strange are brought to life with atmosphere, scholarship, and an eye toward truth. ✨You can find Dr. Bill at: wjbrendle.com 4everparanormal.com
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