Episode 26: The Hidden Link Between Emotional Eating, People Pleasing and Boundaries
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When people talk about emotional eating, the conversation usually focuses on food. Cravings. Discipline. Willpower. But when I work with women around emotional eating, the pattern rarely begins with food at all. It often begins in a moment where something didn’t sit right. A comment that hurt. A boundary that was crossed. A moment where you felt dismissed, unseen, or taken for granted. And instead of expressing what you felt, you swallowed it. In this episode, I explore the connection between...
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