The Proverbs 31 Ministries Podcast

"A Five-Step Framework for Navigating a Hard Conversation" With Lysa TerKeurst

The Proverbs 31 Ministries Podcast

Show Notes

Healing from broken trust is something that can't be achieved overnight. It's a process that takes time, prayer and often times a conversation for true repairs to be made.

In this episode, you’ll learn: How to process both major betrayals and smaller breaches of trust. Why broken trust cannot be fully healed in isolation. How to use a five-step framework to communicate your thoughts and feelings with someone in a nonaccusatory way. Resources From This Episode: Some messages need to be worked through — not just quickly read. That's why Lysa TerKeurst created The Trust Journey, a guided journal to use alongside her book I Want to Trust You, but I Don’t. Get the bundle today! Download Lysa TerKeurst's free resource Trust Is a Track Record: 5 Scriptural Truths To Remember God’s Faithfulness, and receive guided journal prompts to help you work through your honest thoughts, questions and struggles about trusting God. When you give to Proverbs 31 Ministries, you make it possible for us to help you and women like you know the Truth of God's Word and live the Truth every day because we know it changes everything. Click here to download a transcript of this episode. Want More on This Topic? Listen to "How to Stop an Argument Before It Starts" With Donna Jones. Watch "When the Person Who Hurt You Wasn't Held Accountable | With Lysa TerKeurst" on YouTube.

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