The Summer Contract: Managing Chores, Screen Time, and Summer Chaos
The Behavior Blueprint with Mandy GrassShow Notes
Are you dreading the constant summer chorus of "I'm bored," "You never told me I had to do that," and endless screen time negotiations? You aren't alone. We all know how quickly summer can spiral into chaos, but this can be avoided if boundaries are established from day one!
On this episode, Mandy shares the exact "Summer Contract" she created with her blended family. She breaks down how to differentiate rules for little kids versus teens and why having a "loose but explicit" schedule actually gives everyone more freedom. From the pages of the very contract she drew up, Mandy provides a humorous, realistic blueprint for holding both your kids and yourself accountable this summer!
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