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Is Pick-up Artistry Dead in the Era of MeToo? With Matt Cross | Fireside Chat 282

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Show Notes

"All women will sell you a fantasy. I mean, they're like frigging car salesmen. But then once you take that car home, you start to see gremlins."

Brian interviews Matt Cross, dating coach and pick-up artist, host of The 33 Secrets, who has been teaching cold approach since the mid-1990s.

Also: why he says women's selectivity hasn't moved in twenty years, and what has — attention from men who are out of their league and not looking for a relationship, which he says they almost all misread as availability; the married men who sign up to his programs to re-attract their own wives; women prioritising how moral they look over whether they were in the wrong; and his claim that millennial women were the woke peak and women in their twenties are reverting to baseline.

"You just surround yourself with other hot women and then other hot women will want you too. Suddenly you become attractive because they see you around other women. It's nuts."

"Women have a very big problem with accepting any accountability at all for any wrongdoing. What they prioritize is perceived morality."

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