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【内容简介】 渴望亲密关系，却又怕被伤害，对伴侣高度敏感但依赖，需要不断确认ta爱我？今天我们来聊一聊焦虑型依恋（Anxious Attachment）。 Anxious attachment is an insecure relationship style, typically formed within the first 18 months of life, that stems from inconsistent or unpredictable caregiving where a child's emotional needs were not dependably met. In adulthood, this style is characterized by a strong fear of rejection or abandonment, low self-esteem, and a heightened need for constant reassurance and emotional closeness from partners. Although these patterns can cause significant relationship stress, individuals can shift toward a secure attachment style by developing self-awareness, learning to self-soothe, and engaging in therapy to resolve early childhood blueprints. 注意：焦虑型依恋不是生病，而是一种情感处理模式。如果内心痛苦不堪，寻求专业心理咨询是有效的方法！ 【入群邀请】 Minds Between 已经设立听友群，如需入群，请直接添加豆哥微信“MindsBetweenD”，群里会直接更新全部文本和词汇本和如何参与新西兰分享会！如果您已经在小🍠群，也可以移步豆哥微信进群。 再次感谢收听本期 Minds Between！来自新西兰的秋天🍂送给你！
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