
Nerves in Irish Music Sessions
In Tune with Tradition - Perspectives on Session Etiquette in Irish Traditional MusicShow Notes
This episode Éamon Ó Ciosáin talks with Tara about nerves, listening and the things musicians gradually learn by actually spending time in Irish music sessions. Éamon speaks openly about going blank when asked to start a tune, playing slightly above your comfort level and why nerves do not necessarily disappear with experience.
Chapters 01:35 – Returning to music and finding a regular session 03:29 – What does a genuine Irish music session mean? 04:22 – Does being paid change the session? 05:18 – When the best sessions happen by accident 06:01 – The highs and lows of sessions 07:12 – Finding the rhythmic sweet spot 08:19 – When speed starts running away 09:07 – Going blank when somebody asks you to start a tune 10:54 – Choosing tunes other people will know 13:09 – Why Tara does not want to play solo in a session 14:03 – Performing on stage versus playing with people 15:13 – Knowing when listening contributes more than playing 16:13 – Sessions that are open and sessions that are not 17:46 – Sometimes musicians simply want a conversation with their friends 19:04 – Advice for musicians beginning to join sessions 20:33 – How better musicians can pull your playing upwards 22:10 – Everybody gets nervous 23:49 – Phones, recordings and how they change the session 23:49 – Recording in sessions and being in the moment 25:06 – Tourist sessions and mic'd-up performances 26:03 – Receiving negative feedback in a session 27:24 – When somebody really does need to be asked to stop 29:19 – Do we need better language for difficult conversations? 30:51 – Is there a minimum level for joining a session? 31:50 – Different types and levels of sessions 32:53 – Why improver sessions can help 33:50 – Recreating session conditions at home 35:26 – What makes a successful session for Éamon? 37:30 – Music for comfort and inspiration 39:36 – Why house sessions feel different 41:00 – Where did the modern session come from? 42:20 – Sessions after COVID Mentioned in this episode: Patrick MacGill Festival Visit www.patrickmacgillfestival.ie for more details. Shortlisted for Awards Vote for In Tune with Tradition visit www.sessionetiquette.com/podcast to view voting links.
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