Self Obsessed

the ULTIMATE guide to fake friends | subtle signs to watch out for & friendship advice

Self Obsessed

Show Notes

hi girlies! guess what... it’s my 400th video! 🎉 i’m so grateful for your continued support and love through the years ❤️ and since you have also come a long way in your self-love journey, give yourself a pat on the back for your consistency because that’s a big deal.

to celebrate my 400th video, we’re talking fake friends and why they’re not always obvious. i’m breaking down the signs of toxic friendships and jealous friends like constant comparison, “i could never” comments, disrespect disguised as jokes, gossip, and the weird energy when you’re winning. if you’re outgrowing friends or going through a friendship breakup, i’ll share how to protect your peace with self-love, boundaries, self-respect, aligned values, and slowing down who you trust because you deserve friendships that feel safe, supportive, and aligned with the woman you’re becoming.

♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO: 00:00 Introduction 01:48 Chapter 1: Signs You Have a Fake Friend 09:23 Chapter 2: Getting the F*ck Over It 14:04 Chapter 3: Protecting Yourself 20:12 Final Reminders

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