
Helping New Mums With the Loss of Identity | Sarah Condie | ADM Conversations
ADM Conversations: Theology for lifeShow Notes
What happens to a woman's sense of identity when she becomes a mother? And how can churches help new mums feel supported, valued and less alone?
In this episode of ADM Conversations, Jeanie Schwarz continues her conversation with Sarah Condie about the first 1,000 days of a child's life. This time, the focus shifts from the baby to the mother.
Drawing on their own experiences of motherhood, Sarah and Jeanie explore the exhaustion, uncertainty and loss of identity that can come with having a baby. They discuss the pressure to be a perfect parent, the guilt many mothers experience, and the importance of remembering that mothers have needs too.
They also consider how churches can offer meaningful support to new parents. From creating spaces for honest conversation and friendship to offering practical encouragement and recognising when a mother may be struggling with her mental health, Sarah shares simple ways Christian communities can make a real difference.
In this conversation they discuss:
-How becoming a mother can change your sense of identity -Why new mums often feel exhausted, isolated or inadequate -Letting go of the pressure to be a perfect parent -Supporting mothers through the challenges of early parenthood -Recognising when a mother may need additional help -How churches can build communities of care around young families
Find the Press On resilience course that Sarah mentioned at mentalhealthinstitute.org.au
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This is Part 2 of Sarah and Jeanie's conversation about the first 1,000 days.
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