Are We Into This? with Cosmopolitan

Why does your ex keep coming back?

Are We Into This? with Cosmopolitan

Show Notes

With just two days to go until Halloween, we thought we’d trick or treat you to a scary episode this week – and what’s scarier than your ex sliding in your DMs?!

Ahead of their fave season of the year, Millie and Clare are talking ghosts, ghouls, and zombie exes, and asking: Why do exes always come back to haunt you? And is it ever a good idea to resurrect them?

Whether you’ve had an ex come back to life – or been guilty of popping back up yourself – let us know your thoughts in comments, reviews, or on our socials @CosmopolitanUK.

Hosts: Millie Court and Clare Stephenson

Co-host: Amy May Ellis

Executive Producer and Cosmopolitan Editor-in-Chief: Claire Hodgson

Executive Producer: Will Foster

Senior Producer and Cosmopolitan Sex & Relationships Editor: Brit Dawson

Producer: Ruth Holroyd

Video Editor: Megan Stapleton

Assistant Producer and Cosmopolitan Features Editor: Jennifer Savin

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