The Podcast by KevinMD

Loneliness, not weakness, is driving women out of medicine

The Podcast by KevinMD

Show Notes

Medical training hands you a ready-made group of friends. Then it ends, and many women physicians find themselves starting over alone in a new city. Cassie Burton Greenbaum is a pediatric critical care physician and the founder of Off Service Mom Co., a friendship matchmaking service for physician moms. This episode is based on her article "Physician loneliness is driving women out of medicine," published on KevinMD. You will hear why friendships get harder to build once you are the attending, and how a schedule with no pattern to it pulls you away from everyone who works ordinary hours. She explains how chronic loneliness turns into burnout and lost career satisfaction, and how the shame around the word lonely keeps physicians from ever saying it out loud. She describes the six-week pilot she ran with 20 physician moms and what made the matches work. Press play for the specific moves she recommends, starting with the reason that waiting until you feel less busy never works.

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