Messy Minutes

The Becs & Mel Friendship Lore

Messy Minutes

Show Notes

We’ve been friends for a LONG time, but our friendship hasn’t always looked the way it does now. In this episode, we’re telling the full story of Becs & Mel — early years of friendship, drifting apart, reconnecting, and how our friendship became stronger than ever. It’s a little nostalgic, a little messy, and very us. 🫶🏼

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