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An unbelievable true story of that time Jayna got "flewed out" to Las Vegas for a first date. Her Bumble match was charming, confident, dripping in designer labels, and apparently had money to burn. But was he actually fancy… or nah? What starts as an exciting adventure filled with big promises, questionable first impressions, and a few hilarious red flags takes an unexpected turn when a travel disaster leaves Jayna in a situation she never saw coming. From the awkward realities of online dating to the dangers of ignoring your intuition, this funny, suspenseful dating disaster has all the makings of a romantic comedy… until it doesn't. Grab your candy corn, pour yourself something strong, and settle in for a spooky Halloween dating story that's almost too ridiculous to be true. (And trust us: you're going to want to come back for Part Two!) evil laugh 🧡 If you enjoy this show and would like to show your appreciation, please click here: Buymeacoffee.com/BigLashEnergy Our not-so-secret goal is to create a tribe of badass women who find beauty in the messiest parts of life. We're learning and laughing as we go! If you know someone who could use a little BLE in their life? If so, could you pretty please share this show with them! ...let's grow this tribe together! HOW TO CONNECT: Find us on INSTAGRAM! BigLashPodcast Jaynas makeup and personal IG: JaynaMarieMakeup We're official! Here's our website: www.biglashpodcast.com

What happens when a dream birthday adventure goes completely off the rails... 2,000 feet in the air?! Jayna and her best friend Elsa are back in Mexico City for a once-in-a-lifetime hot air balloon ride over the ancient pyramids of Teotihuacán. It's supposed to be a magical sunrise experience celebrating Elsa's 50th birthday. But when things don't go according to plan, the birthday girl is NOT having it! What follows is a hilarious travel disaster involving big emotions, unexpected drama, and two best friends who couldn't handle conflict more differently. One's determined to keep the peace. The other? She's got ZERO fucks left to give. Between the laughter, tears, and absolute chaos, Jayna discovers a surprising lesson about people-pleasing, expressing anger, female friendship, and giving yourself permission to feel your feelings. Because sometimes the most unforgettable travel memories aren't the ones you planned. And sometimes... it's your birthday, and you can cry if you want to! 🧡 If you enjoy this show and would like to show your appreciation, please click here: Buymeacoffee.com/BigLashEnergy Our not-so-secret goal is to create a tribe of badass women who find beauty in the messiest parts of life. We're learning and laughing as we go! If you know someone who could use a little BLE in their life? If so, could you pretty please share this show with them! ...let's grow this tribe together! HOW TO CONNECT: Find us on INSTAGRAM! BigLashPodcast Jaynas makeup and personal IG: JaynaMarieMakeup We're official! Here's our website: www.biglashpodcast.com

(CONTENT WARNING: SA IS DISCUSSED) F*** being cute. Jayna's pissed and speaking up for all women who've had enough. Sparked by the Cornell Seven Story and the surrounding conversation this one is fuelled by collective rage. It's a raw, hot take on rape culture, bro code and the silence that protects it all. In this unfiltered episode, Jayna steps away from her usual format and asks why women are still doing all the homework. "Watch your drink, dont walk alone, dont get too drunk" instead of teaching men not to harm. From personal experiences with sexual assault to raising a daughter, Jayna unpacks consent, victim blaming, the effects of porn, and the silence of "good" men. Sources & Further Reading RAINN — Sexual Assault & Rape Statistics⁠ — RAINN reports that 76% of reported rapes are committed by someone the victim knows. RAINN — Reporting Sexual Assault & Criminal Justice Statistics⁠ — includes the statistic that 975 perpetrators out of every 1,000 sexual assaults do not receive incarceration. CNN Investigation — Hidden networks sharing methods for drugging and sexually assaulting women⁠ — CNN's investigation documented men sharing "sleep content," drugging women, and an "eye check" used to demonstrate unconsciousness. Reuters — New York Attorney General named special prosecutor in Cornell rape probe⁠ — covers the reopened Cornell investigation and the DA's plan to present evidence to a grand jury. PubMed — Erectile Dysfunction in Adolescents and Young Adults⁠ — a 2024 review reporting a large increase in adolescents presenting with erectile dysfunction and discussing online pornography among the areas being researched. PubMed — Pornography Consumption and Male Sexual Dysfunction: A Systematic Review⁠ — a 2026 systematic review finding the relationship is complex: pornography viewing alone was not a clear predictor of dysfunction, while problematic use showed stronger associations in some studies. 🧡 If you enjoy this show and would like to show your appreciation, please click here: Buymeacoffee.com/BigLashEnergy Our not-so-secret goal is to create a tribe of badass women who find beauty in the messiest parts of life. We're learning and laughing as we go! If you know someone who could use a little BLE in their life? If so, could you pretty please share this show with them! ...let's grow this tribe together! HOW TO CONNECT: Find us on INSTAGRAM! BigLashPodcast Jaynas makeup and personal IG: JaynaMarieMakeup We're official! Here's our website: www.biglashpodcast.com

🏆 BIG NEWS! BLE IS A 2X SIGNAL AWARDS FINALIST! Big Lash Energy has been nominated for Best Comedy Writing AND Best Host — and the Listener's Choice Awards are decided by YOU! 🧡 CLICK HERE TO VOTE FOR BIG LASH ENERGY -You can search for Big Lash Energy to see both nominations -You have to click a link in the email they send you or your vote doesnt count! It only takes a minute, and every single vote means SO much — especially as an independent Canadian podcast competing alongside some seriously massive shows. Voting closes October 15! 🧡 YOUR VOTE HELPS! THANK YOU! ______________________________________________________ Pack your bags, gorgeous! We're going to Mexico City! This girls trip has it all...From the incredible food and streets of Mexico City to Coyoacán, Frida Kahlo's Casa Azul, Lucha Libre and the famous floating boats of Xochimilco. There were moments that were beautiful and emotional…and others that went spectacularly off the rails. Because this is Big Lash Energy, and you already know Jayna can't just go on a normal vacation. Come experience Mexico City through two best friends who went looking for art, culture, history, amazing food and a little adventure—and came home with stories they'll be telling for the rest of their lives. If Mexico City is on your travel bucket list (or you just want to come along for the chaos), this episode is your boarding pass. 🎧 Grab your passport. We saved you a seat.

This isn't a history lesson. It's girl talk about one of the most fascinating women who ever lived. You know the eyebrows. You know the flower crown. You've seen her face everywhere. But trust us…facial hair was the LEAST interesting thing about Frida Kahlo. In this episode, Jayna shares five reasons she's completely obsessed with Frida—and by the end, you might be too. Her story is painful, romantic, rebellious, wildly unconventional and, at times, just the right amount of PETTY. There's a reason Jayna has this woman tattooed on her body, hanging larger-than-life in her living room…and why she may have even named someone in her family after a particularly important man in Frida's life. 👀 Come for the Frida Kahlo story. Stay for the heartbreak, resilience, audacity and the story of a woman who refused to be forgettable 🧡 If you enjoy this show and would like to show your appreciation, please click here: Buymeacoffee.com/BigLashEnergy Our not-so-secret goal is to create a tribe of badass women who find beauty in the messiest parts of life. We're learning and laughing as we go! If you know someone who could use a little BLE in their life? If so, could you pretty please share this show with them! ...let's grow this tribe together! HOW TO CONNECT: Find us on INSTAGRAM! BigLashPodcast Jaynas makeup and personal IG: JaynaMarieMakeup We're official! Here's our website: www.biglashpodcast.com