Two Parents & A Podcast

Early brain development, our date-night check-in & what it means when your toddler says 'um'

Two Parents & A Podcast

Show Notes

Welcome back to another episode of Two Parents & A Podcast — it's FRIDAY (and yes, as promised, Harrison has brought his Friday energy!!!). For our listeners who like a parent-heavy episode more than Harrison — this one is for you!! (lol)

OK so - did you know 90% of your adult brain develops between 0 & 5?! WE DIDN’T! So we dug into a few child development topics on this episode: First… your toddler saying "um" isn't rude (side note: is it rude for adults to say um?!), it's actually an important development milestone. Other interesting things: babies who swim actually DEVELOP FASTER (better coordination, balance & body control, and they walk faster too!) and why kids in the 0-5 range absorb language SO much easier than we do as adults (it's a brain state thing called theta and it's genuinely fascinating).

Since that was “too much parenting talk” for Harrison, we did one of our date night check-ins live on the pod (ok guys, this is Jules now — would you imagine their date night convo has much to do with kids?? and when they said "kids aside," the updates also primarily revolved around parenting LOL. But no, we get a really good Flock update and a feeding journey update from Alex in this section).

Other stuff: West & Jesse are friends again?, PSA on why you should never put your kid in a blue bathing suit (safety!!), Siete is (kind of) changing their ingredients after being acquired by Pepsi, there's a LIZARD in our house, and Harrison is still on that book club is just girls night in disguise.

OH and Ginny made her pod debut!!

LOVE YOU GUYS!

Timestamps:

00:00:00 Welcome back to Two Parents & A Podcast!

00:02:22 SKIP IF YOU HATE FUN: West soft launches friendship with Jesse

00:05:28 The “WOW, that was louder than I thought” neighbor gift

00:08:25 Why are “dad injuries” so embarrassing?!

00:11:05 Toddlers saying "um" is a developmental milestone?!

00:18:20 PSA: NEVER put your kid in a blue bathing suit

00:19:00 Babies who swim actually DEVELOP FASTER (new study!)

00:20:05 90% of your adult brain develops between 0 & 5

00:23:34 Being away from your kids for even ONE night feels like too much

00:25:09 The viral "normalize telling your kid they're not special" video debate

00:31:40 Siete was bought by PEPSI (& the misleading headline about their ingredients!)

00:38:23 UNHINGED mom hacks: tooth quality tooth fairy, a wig for hair-holding & more

00:43:15 Harrison still wants everyone to know that book club in girls night in disguise

00:49:00 MID-EPISODE CHECK IN: health, work, friends, postpartum & more

01:03:30 We had a LIZARD in our house last night?!

01:04:28 ”Minnesota nice" is a real thing?!

01:06:45 LOVE YOU GUYS!

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