No One Told Us

Episode 83: What does research say about sleep training? Bed Sharing? Debunking the Myths with Tracy Cassels

No One Told Us

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Episode 83: What does research say about sleep training? Bed Sharing? Debunking the Myths with Tracy Cassels @tracycasselsphd

This week Rachael and guest Tracy Cassels PhD, Director of Evolutionary Parenting, discuss all the hot sleep topics- sleep training, bedsharing, and more, and specifically dive into what research shows (as well as what’s lacking).

Inside this episode:

Challenging the notion that sleep training improves infant sleep

Why responsive caregiving is crucial for a child's well-being and mental health

The reasons why highly sensitive children may not respond well to sleep training

Ways bed sharing can be a safe and beneficial practice

The cultural stigma around bed sharing

How pressure to conform to certain parenting practices can be detrimental to families

And so much more!

Mentioned in this episode:

Sleep modules offered through Breastfeeding Conferences here:

Science and Sleep Training Course: The Hidden Truth

Science and Sleep Training Course: Sleep Training and the Stress Response

Tracy’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tracycasselsphd/?hl=en

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