The ONE thing that absolutely prevents you from loving yourself
Heal Your Codependency with Marshall BurtcherShow Notes
Episode: The ONE thing that absolutely prevents you from loving yourself Transaction, earned love teaches us that we must - MUST - seek, chase, and perform for love. This means we have to be "just right" in the eyes of the other or we won't get love. This means that when there are challenges, problems, hiccups, mistakes, love is in jeopardy. This means we start LIVING like we're always just on the edge of losing love. And that results in: - Anxiety about what others feel and think...
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