Show Notes
In honor of Valentine’s Day, we’re bringing you an episode about love. We start with TikTok creator Jojo Manzo, who turned his late-night doomscrolling into a matchmaking experiment when he invited thousands of strangers to flirt in his comment section. Then we talk to Maria Avgitidis, a third-generation matchmaker, about why friction, community, and a little discomfort might actually be the point of dating. And finally, we get to the physical … or, at least, geographical. When you find someone you care about, do you share your location with them? Is it intimacy, convenience, surveillance or all three? We explore what it looks like to find human connection in a deeply digital world.
Guests:
Maria Avgitidis Pyrgiotakis, matchmaker and CEO of Agapematch
Jojo Manzo, musician and content creator
Friends of Close All Tabs: Mandy Seiner and Jackson Maxwell, Anna Iovine, Tanya Chen, Amanda Silberling, Harriet Weber, and Taj Weaver
Further Reading/Listening:
You Don’t Need to Swipe Right. A.I. Is Transforming Dating Apps — Eli Tan, The New York Times
To Share or Not to Share? How Location Sharing Is Changing Our Relationships — Modern Love Podcast
‘Perfection without the connection’: How AI is becoming a digital wingman — Hani Richter, Reuters
The Doomed Dream of an AI Matchmaker — Faith Hill, The Atlantic
Ask A Matchmaker: Matchmaker Maria’s No Nonsense Guide to Finding Love — Maria Avgitidis, Matchmaker Maria
Is U-Hauling Real? Here's What's Behind The Lesbian Stereotype — Lea Rose Emery, Bustle
What's The Deal With U-Haul Lesbians? — Kira Deshler, Paging Dr. Lesbian
Read the transcript here.
Credits:
Close All Tabs is hosted by Morgan Sung. Our team includes producer Maya Cueva, editor Chris Hambrick and senior editor Chris Egusa who also composed our theme song and credits music. Additional producing support by Gabriela Glueck. Additional music from APM. Audio engineering by Brendan Willard. Audience engagement support from Maha Sanad. Jen Chien is our Director of Podcasts. Katie Sprenger is our Director of Content Operations. Ethan Toven-Lindsey is our Editor in Chief. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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