Episode 130: Radical Acceptance of Our Stories with Mayer Buisson (An S.O.S. Conversation)
The GoodHard Story PodcastShow Notes
What if the only way to bear our grief is to share it? My friend Mayer Buisson is living with the “invisible wheelchair” of Huntington’s Disease. The shame she felt around her diagnosis caused her to keep it a secret. Eventually, carrying it alone became unbearable. Today, Mayer lives with a radical acceptance of her story, and she’s inviting us into the “collateral gifts” of her grief. In this special conversation, you’ll get to sit down in a version of one of my beloved S.O.S. group gatherings to witness that it’s possible to move from shame to surrender, just like Mayer.
Show Notes Mentioned in this conversation Treasures in the Dark: 90 Reflections on Finding Bright Hope Hidden in the Hurting
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