Show Notes
Meet John and Jamie, a made-up couple with a very real story. What do you think? Should they open their marriage?
SHOW LINKS
Emily Nagoski on Making Polyamory Work: https://creators.spotify.com/pod/profile/makingpolywork/episodes/Maintenance-Sx-with-Emily-Nagoski-e2kpe5p/a-abbns15
Fair Play by Eve Rodsky: https://bookshop.org/a/91754/9780525541943
All About Love by bell hooks: https://bookshop.org/a/91754/9780060959470 (I also recommend The Will to Change by the same author) -------------- Also! Libby has created a workbook based on the most popular episodes of the podcast — with simple practices and reflection questions so that you can apply this stuff to your life. Go to https://libbysinback.com/workbook to get your copy.
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