Father and Joe E466: The Golden Rule Isn’t Enough — “Love One Another as I Have Love You”
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Most of us grew up with the Golden Rule: “Treat others the way you want to be treated.” It’s simple, it’s memorable, and it works at a basic level. But as adults, Joe Rockey has been noticing a hard truth: that rule can fail fast in real relationships—because people value different things, receive care differently, and can completely miss a gesture that would have meant the world to you. So Joe and Father Boniface Hicks press into the upgrade Jesus gives at the Last Supper: “Love one another...
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