From Curiosity to Concern: Understanding the Stages of Teen and Young Adult Substance Use
4 Peaks Parents with Thomas MillerShow Notes
Welcome to the Four Peaks Parents Podcast! In this episode, we take a closer look at the stages of substance use in teens and young adults—a topic that can feel confusing and overwhelming for many families. Where does normal experimentation end and more serious use begin? The truth is, the line isn’t always clear. Drawing from my work with families navigating this very challenge, we’ll explore the progression of substance use, how to recognize warning signs, and the best approaches to support your child along the way. Not every teen who experiments will follow the same path—but understanding the stages can make all the difference. Whether you’re facing this issue now or simply want to be prepared, this episode will give you the clarity and confidence to respond with awareness, empathy, and action.
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