this is work

822 spot the difference: confidence vs arrogance, empathy vs enabling + more

this is work

Show Notes

Is your workplace toxic, or does it just have high expectations? A work dynamic could appear as one thing until you look a little closer. In this episode, Shell unpacks the subtle but crucial distinctions between:

👉 a toxic workplace vs a a demanding workplace 👉🏽 confidence vs arrogance 👉🏾 hard work vs hustle 👉🏿 empathy vs enabling bad behaviour 👉🏻 clear leadership vs controlling leadership

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