The Ex-Files - The Divorce and Separation Podcast

How Long and How Much?

The Ex-Files - The Divorce and Separation Podcast

Show Notes

In this episode of "The Ex Files - The Divorce and Separation Podcast," hosts Alex and Liza take on two of the most common questions in separation and divorce: How long will it take, and how much will it cost? With timelines ranging from days to years and legal fees varying widely, this episode breaks down what to expect when separating in Australia. Join Alex and Liza as they discuss: How Long?The separation timeline can vary greatly, depending on you, your ex, and the situation's complexity. From quick resolutions to long-drawn-out battles like the Strahan case, Alex and Liza explore the factors influencing the length of separation proceedings. Topics include the "post-separation phoney war," grief cycles (DABDA), emotional attachments, and navigating the new status quo. A look at the court process through the FCFCOA pathway and why the 12-month timeline is often more myth than reality.

How Much?The cost of separation, with and without lawyers, is another major concern. Alex and Liza explore the pros and cons of going through the process solo (with the warning, "fool for a client") versus hiring legal representation. They also discuss mediation, legal fees for solicitors and barristers, expert witnesses, court costs, and the potential to resolve matters before a final hearing.

This episode provides a clear and realistic overview of the time and financial commitment involved in a separation, helping listeners manage their expectations and prepare for the road ahead. Tune in for expert insights from Alex and Liza on navigating the cost and time of separation in Australia’s family law system. Contact Alex and Liza on the emails below or check them out on Social Media. Alex Wynn - [email protected] Liza Friedwald - [email protected] https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=6155675999789

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