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Could your nervous system be playing a bigger role in chronic illness than you realize? In this episode of SHE MD, Mary Alice Haney is joined by founder of The Tick Chicks, Alicia White, and Primal Trust founder, Cathleen King, to discuss the connection between Lyme disease, mold exposure, autoimmune conditions, trauma, and nervous system dysregulation. Alicia shares her 12-year journey to recovery after years of debilitating symptoms and misdiagnoses, while Cathleen explains how brain retraining, breathwork, and nervous system regulation can help the body heal. They also explore why so many women are told their symptoms are “just anxiety,” how chronic stress impacts the immune system, and the small daily practices that can help shift the body out of survival mode. Whether you’re navigating chronic illness, burnout, or anxiety, this episode offers hopeful insights and practical tools for healing. Subscribe to SHE MD Podcast for expert tips on PCOS, endometriosis, fertility, hormonal balance, mental health, and more. Share with friends and visit SHE MD website and Ovii for research-backed resources, holistic health strategies, and expert guidance on women’s health and well-being.
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What You’ll Learn What Alpha-Gal syndrome is and why it’s rapidly increasing The early signs and symptoms of Lyme disease Why chronic illness is often misdiagnosed in women How mold exposure can impact autoimmune symptoms The connection between trauma, stress, and physical illness What nervous system dysregulation actually means How “survival mode” affects healing and inflammation Simple nervous system “pattern interrupts” to reduce stress What vagus nerve regulation and brain retraining are Why chronic illness often requires a holistic approach to healing How breathwork can calm the body’s stress response The emotional toll of living with invisible illness Why prevention is critical when it comes to tick-borne illnesses
Key Timestamps 00:00 Introduction 01:39 Alicia White’s Lyme Disease Journey Begins 03:05 Why Lyme Disease Cases Are Exploding 05:51 The Most Common Lyme Disease Symptoms 06:35 How To Properly Test for Lyme Disease 08:52 Dangerous Tick Co Infections Explained 09:24 What Is Alpha-Gal Syndrome? 10:29 What To Do Immediately After a Tick Bite 13:19 What Causes Chronic Lyme Disease? 14:54 Alicia’s Holistic Lyme Recovery Journey 21:24 How Fear Blocks Chronic Illness Recovery 27:52 Lyme Disease and Nervous System Dysregulation 32:18 How To Hack Your Nervous System 34:08 The “Pattern Interrupt” Technique Explained 39:01 The Physiological Sigh Breathing Exercise 41:17 Dr. Cat’s Recovery From Being Bedbound 46:05 How Brain Retraining Actually Works 50:52 Trauma Processing and Somatic Healing 59:53 What Is Alpha Gal Syndrome? 01:13:24 How To Prevent Lyme Disease and Alpha Gal Syndrome 01:16:32 Final Thoughts on Tick Prevention and Awareness
Key Takeaways Chronic illness often affects both the body and nervous system Lyme disease and tick-borne illnesses are becoming more common Women with chronic symptoms are frequently dismissed or misdiagnosed Nervous system regulation can play a major role in healing Chronic stre
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