BONUS EP: Why we parent boys and girls differently (and what it takes to keep them safe)

Every day, another headline. Another woman. Another conversation we can’t afford to ignore. This week, Phoebe and Hannah unpack the stories dominating the headlines, from the Cornell 7 sexual assault allegations to toxic sporting cultures, the behaviours we continue to excuse and the institutions that close ranks to protect their own. They explore why men need to start speaking up, how survivors process trauma and why speaking out isn’t always as straightforward as it seems. Amidst the discussion Hannah reveals a frightening assault at sea, and Phoebe unleashes on the NRL culture. Plus, they tackle the bigger question: how do we raise boys to become good men, break toxic cycles and build a culture rooted in respect, accountability and change? Plus the girls talk parenting unpacking the conversations we need to be having with our kids about sex and consent, and Phoebe reveals the childhood routine that might explain her impressive elocution. And, because no episode of (Over)Share would be complete without a debate, they settle the all-important question: are siblings invited to kids’ birthday parties, or absolutely not? This is (Over)Share, where nothing is better left unsaid xo THE END BITS Content note: This episode discusses sexual assault, domestic violence and allegations of sexual misconduct. Follow us on instagram/ TikTok @oversharethepodcast HOSTED BY: Hannah Ferrier & Phoebe Burgess PRODUCED BY: Sally Best VIDEO PRODUCER: Becky Lillyman EXECUTIVE PRODUCER: Shauna Anderson SET: A big thank you to Cozey for helping us bring the (Over)Share set to life. We acknowledge the Traditional Owners of the Land on which we have recorded this podcast. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Imagine finding out your eight-year friendship might be over… via Instagram. That’s where Hannah’s at this week, and she’s bringing the whole thing to Phoebe. The girls talk friendship breakups, the subjects that can blow up even the closest relationships and whether you can stay friends when your beliefs are worlds apart. Plus, the girls talk AI taking over motherhood, Phoebe’s questionable phone habits and, somehow, wife swapping. We want your friendship horror stories. What was the landmine topic that blew yours up? Did you fix it? And are there some differences you just have to agree never to talk about? DM us @oversharethepodcast. This is (Over)Share...and you know it...NOTHING is better left unsaid xo THE END BITS Follow us on instagram/ TikTok @oversharethepodcast HOSTED BY: Hannah Ferrier & Phoebe Burgess PRODUCED BY: Sally Best VIDEO PRODUCER: Becky Lillyman EXECUTIVE PRODUCER: Shauna Anderson SET: A big thank you to Cozey for helping us bring the (Over)Share set to life. We acknowledge the Traditional Owners of the Land on which we have recorded this podcast. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We’ve spent the last two episodes going through the headlines, but we’re not done just yet. Hannah has a few more questions for Phoebe, and this time she wants to know what was actually happening behind some of the stories everyone thought they knew. Phoebe talks about the period when her private life became very public, why she couldn't see things then the way she sees them now and the warning she definitely wasn’t ready to hear. Plus, why she hasn’t dated in seven years, the reason she’s keeping the Burgess surname and what dating would look like for her now...and why she’s not ready to go there. And because this is (Over)Share, the girls eventually descend into made-up husbands, sperm donor rumours, accidental birthday invitations to Thailand and head lice. Welcome to (Over)Share. Nothing’s better left unsaid. THE END BITS If anything discussed in this episode brings something up for you, support is available through Lifeline on 13 11 14. Follow us on instagram/ TikTok @oversharethepodcast HOSTED BY: Hannah Ferrier & Phoebe Burgess PRODUCED BY: Sally Best VIDEO PRODUCER: Becky Lillyman EXECUTIVE PRODUCER: Shauna Anderson SET: A big thank you to Cozey for helping us bring the (Over)Share set to life. We acknowledge the Traditional Owners of the Land on which we have recorded this podcast. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

For their first ever (Over)Share, Hannah Ferrier and Phoebe Burgess reveal how their unlikely friendship started, and just how much they still have to learn about each other. Hannah starts digging into Phoebe Burgess’ past, and Phoebe has finally decided she’s ready to go there. Phoebe opens up about the breakdown of her marriage, the future she thought she was building and what it took to start again with two young children. She talks moving back in with her parents, the parts of her life that played out publicly, and why she’s finally at a point where she feels proud of how she got through it. Hannah also wants to know what the headlines missed, and how different the person behind them is from the one people think they know. Plus, the pair reveal their very questionable first impressions of each other, how their unlikely friendship began and the drunk dial that may have sealed the deal. In the next few episodes they both dive further into the headlines that followed them over the years. Phoebe gets into Hannah’s Below Deck exit, anxiety and then Hannah comes back to the media storm that was Phoebe’s life for so many years. Welcome to (Over)Share. Nothing’s better left unsaid.

Hannah Ferrier and Phoebe Burgess know that nothing's better left unsaid. They've lived very different lives, have very different opinions and absolutely don’t agree on everything. This is (Over)Share. The moment you realise you are so stretched being the partner, the ex, the ‘divorcee’, the mum, the employee, the friend, the organiser, the fixer...that somewhere along the way, you stopped being you. It’s funny, personal, occasionally inappropriate, and always honest.