Show Notes
JOIN THE REWIRED IN ACTION COMMUNITY: www.rewiredinaction.com/ We’re exploring a topic we’ve been covering in the community recently: optimisation, and how the pressure to constantly improve ourselves can make eating disorder recovery that much harder. It can be so difficult to recognise when the pursuit of doing better starts taking us further away from the life we actually want. We get into our own experiences of optimisation, including the pressure to make every moment productive and the guilt that can come with slowing down. We also look at how to recognise when the goalposts keep moving and, crucially, make choices that align with our values (because spoiler: you are absolutely allowed to enjoy things without earning them!). Topics covered: Optimisation culture and the pressure to do more
Productivity, perfectionism and eating disorders
When healthy habits become rigid or compulsive
The moving goalposts of recovery
Learning to rest without guilt
Freezing joy and saving things for the “perfect” moment
Values, boundaries and action alignment
Practical tools for stepping off the optimisation hamster wheel
For more information or to join the Rewired Community:www.rewiredinaction.com/ Connect with us: MegInstagram: @megsy_recoveryYouTube: Megsy RecoveryTikTok: megsy recovery SafiaInstagram: @safia_edrecoverycoachEmail: [email protected]: www.safiaed.com Em (copywriter & editor)Instagram: @em_schone Tallulah Self (podcast editor)Instagram: @tallulahself Disclaimer Please keep in mind we're not medical professionals, and the podcast content reflects our own experiences and opinions, so it shouldn't be taken as medical advice. If you're struggling with an eating disorder or disordered eating, please reach out to a medical professional to discuss your own situation and get professional help that's right for you.
More from Rewired
JOIN THE REWIRED IN ACTION COMMUNITY: www.rewiredinaction.com/ Our second October testimonial episode is here! Today, we’re hearing from more of the fabulous Rewired in Action Community about what it’s like to be part of it. Members share how regular touchpoints help them keep recovery moving between sessions, and how reassuring it can be to hear someone else put your own thoughts into words. We also touch on the value of practical tools grounded in lived experience, and having support to spot the sneaky ways an eating disorder can keep you stuck – even when it looks like you’re doing well from the outside. Topics covered: Finding connection and understanding
JOIN THE REWIRED IN ACTION COMMUNITY: www.rewiredinaction.com/ In today’s community testimonials episode, we hear from our wonderful Rewired in Action members about their experiences and what being part of the community has brought to their recovery. They share how the regular sessions, practical tools and accountability have helped them move from wanting to make changes to taking action, even when it feels difficult. We also talk about the value of consistent support and having a space where recovery can look different for everyone. A huge thank you to the featured members for being so open about their experiences and helping others understand what the community is like! Topics covered: Putting recovery into action
JOIN THE REWIRED IN ACTION COMMUNITY: www.rewiredinaction.com/ In Part 2 of Meg’s story, we pick up with what recovery actually looked like once she started working with our wonderful psychologist. We’ll be talking about the practical side of treatment and how she managed to keep taking steps forward when recovery felt incredibly uncomfortable (understatement!). We also get into weight gain and the space left behind when the ED starts to loosen its grip. Plus, we’ll go through some of the tips, tricks and tools we both continue to use to this day, alongside what recovery has changed for Meg beyond “just” the food. Topics covered: Treatment and food challenges
JOIN THE REWIRED IN ACTION COMMUNITY: www.rewiredinaction.com/ Following Safia’s story, today, Meg shares her recovery experience — where her ED started, how things developed over the years, and what happened as she moved through different stages of treatment. It wasn’t a straightforward timeline (recovery timelines rarely are!). There were periods of getting better, moving countries, starting again and relapsing. We also explore the moment when Meg realised that looking healthier and eating in a certain way didn’t necessarily mean she was recovered, and how working with someone who understood eating disorders helped her recognise the rules that were still running her life. Topics covered: How Meg’s eating disorder began
JOIN THE REWIRED IN ACTION COMMUNITY: www.rewiredinaction.com/ Eating disorders can be incredibly convincing; it’s why so many of us stay unwell for so long. In this episode, we look at some of the common “mind games” that can keep you stuck – everything from being told you “look well” or that your blood results are fine, to comparing yourself with someone who seems to be struggling more. We talk about why these thoughts can be so difficult to challenge, and come back to a bigger question: what kind of life are you able to live when the eating disorder is making the decisions? Topics covered: Common ED “mind games”