Show Notes
Why do men pull back right when relationships start to matter? In this episode, Jack reframes “fear of commitment” as what it really is: a fear of exposure, vulnerability, and failing inside of love. Drawing from attachment theory and years of therapeutic experience, he explains why closeness activates old wounds in men and why good women often trigger fear instead of comfort. Through stories and relatable metaphors, this episode reveals why men don’t run from women — they run from the untrai...
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