Life Kit

Dear Life Kit: How much advice is too much advice?

Life Kit

Show Notes

In this edition of Dear Life Kit, more wisdom from our vast archives to help you figure out:

-Can you bug your friends to do something they're avoiding? -If your partner has a boundary, do you need to go along with it? -Do you need to be on the same page with your partner about junk food?

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