DRVN Podcast

How To Become Insanely Charismatic & Fix Your Insecurities - Charlie Houpert from Charisma On Command

DRVN Podcast

Show Notes

Should you really be vulnerable in relationships and if so, to what extent? How do you deal with your deepest insecurities and strong, challenging emotions?

This is a very raw & honest conversation about dealing with your deepest insecurities, whether you can really be vulnerable in relationships and if so, to what extent, how to deal with strong, challenging emotions, healing your relationship with your parents and so much more…

Charlie Houpert is the co-founder of Charisma On Command, a YouTube channel with over 6 Million subscribers and the host of the Dropping in Podcast.

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TIMESTAMPS: (0:00) Intro (0:52) Why People Don't Really Want To Be Confident & Happy (7:45) The 5 Archetypes of Charisma (13:21) How Pickup And The Manosphere Is Hurting Young Men (20:18) How To Trust In Relationships & How To Open Up (The "Right" Way) (24:59) How To Let Go Of Control (33:20) The Difference Between Your 20s And 30s (38:33) How To Overcome Fear Of Connection (46:58) The Key To Mastering Your Emotions (Aries & Aphrodite Story) (54:47) Why Men Need Their Feminine & Women Need Their Masculine (57:37) Should You Really Be Vulnerable As A Man? (1:04:49) How To Free Yourself From Your Biggest Fears (1:11:49) Why You Should Have An Ego (1:18:37 )The Biggest Lessons From His 30s vs 20s (1:24:42) Why It's So Hard To Communicate Your Needs (1:30:16) How To Master Your Emotions, Especially When You Feel Numb (1:35:15) How To Start Your Emotional Journey

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