Show Notes
In this episode, Michael Preston, Dr. Silvina Irwin, and Michael Barnett tackle questions the came up at a recent Externship in Los Angeles. Whether you're grappling with attachment styles, client setbacks, or pivotal relational moments, this episode offers nuanced insights to deepen your understanding and clinical skills.
To learn more about working with or training with Michael Barnett or Dr. Silvina Irwin visit their websites
www.michaelbarnettlpc.com www.drsilvinairwin.com www.eftcla.org
To learn more about working with Michael Preston for EFT Supervision visit Michael's website.
www.michaelprestonlpc.com
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