Don't Let These Common Bitting Mistakes Hold You Back; Why Choosing a Bit for Your Horse Is a Bigger Responsibility Than You Think
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This episode is presented by Nikovian. Use code horseperson15 for 15% off your order. The bit is one of the most powerful—and potentially harmful—tools we use, yet most riders choose one without fully understanding its impact. In this episode, we unpack why choosing a bit and understanding that bit is actually a huge responsibility that we really need more focus and more education on. I'm joined by Mette Larsen who is one of the most knowledgeable sources of bit fitting and bit choice information here in the states. Mette Larsen is the president of Neue Schule USA and a lifelong equestrian who has dedicated her career to improving horse welfare through innovative bitting solutions. A successful dressage rider and also a board-certified physician, Mette's commitment to ethical, science-based horsemanship has made her a respected advocate for better communication and comfort between horse and rider. You can expect to learn about the most common bit fitting mistakes, what to understand about the horse's mouth because it was designed for eating and drinking (not for carrying a bit!), and what you can do the next time you go to the barn to determine if you're one of the 80-90% of riders who have a sub-optimal bit in your horse's mouth - according to your horse's mouth anatomy, training, and preferences. This episode is supported by #WeRideTogether. To learn more about the CARD diagrams mentioned in today's episode, go to WeRideTogether.today or click here.
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