
Show Notes
Words have power. Language is how we make meaning of the things we’ve experienced. For some, having language around DNA surprises, adoption, and donor conception helps people feel less alone. And others take it even further, using the power of language to write about their experience. In this week’s episode, I’m joined by Linda Pevac, also known by her pen name, Emma Stevens. Linda has penned three books about her life as a baby scoop era adoptee. We discuss her DNA surprise journey and why writing has been a powerful tool in sharing her story. Thank you for sharing your story, Linda. https://emmastevenswriter.com/books/ Support the show
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One of the most disorienting parts of a DNA surprise is realizing that the truth has often been there all along. Things that once seemed insignificant – the way you looked, the questions you asked, the places you felt like you belonged – can suddenly take on an entirely different meaning. Tamarra grew up knowing she looked different from the rest of her family. She asked questions about her darker features from an early age, but accepted the explanation she was given about where they came from. Years later, a DNA test finally gave her a very different answer. In this week’s episode, Tamarra shares how her DNA surprise changed the way she understood her childhood, her identity, and her family. She also shares her search for her biological relatives and the connections that have helped her finally feel seen. Thank you for sharing your story, Tamarra. Tell your story. Support the show.