Show Notes
In this special episode, we’re joined by two godly and hilarious single Christian men — Calvin and Charles — for a real and unfiltered conversation about all things dating, attraction, and pursuing relationships that honor Jesus. From long-distance love stories to thoughts on modesty, vulnerability, and what they're actually looking for in a wife, this episode is packed with honesty, humor, and lots of wisdom. We got to ask the questions so many girls are wondering, and these guys delivered! Whether you're single and curious, dating and discerning, or just love some godly banter, this one is for you!
In This Episode
00:00 – Welcome to "The Boys" Episode
01:00 – Meet Calvin: Southern Charm & Startup Life
03:30 – Meet Charles: Creative, Construction, & Looking for Love
05:30 – Thoughts on Long Distance Relationships
10:00 – Charles’ Story: Australia, Dating, & Accountability
14:30 – When a Bikini Pic Is a Dealbreaker
18:00 – What Christian Men Look for on Instagram
22:00 – Homemaking, Femininity, and What’s Actually Attractive
25:00 – Are Christian Guys Actually Asking Girls Out?
29:00 – How Calvin Discerns Who to Date
33:00 – Charles’ Bold Approach & Discernment in Pursuit
36:00 – The Problem with Being Unapproachable
45:00 – "If He Wanted To, He Would" — True or False?
48:00 – Final Thoughts & Advice for Christian Women
51:00 – Calvin & Charles' 30-Second Wife Pitches
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