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Some stories are everywhere. Others are quietly pushed to the edges. Amplifying the Unseen with Kirsty Reed is a podcast that elevates the voices, experiences and perspectives that too often go unheard. Through honest conversations and powerful storytelling, Kirsty explores the realities of parenting, community, blended families, anti-racism, raising children with SEND, leadership, inequality and the systems that shape our lives. You'll hear from parents, community members, professionals, community leaders and people with lived experience sharing stories that challenge assumptions, spark reflection and inspire change. This isn't about quick fixes or neat conclusions. It's about creating space for meaningful conversations, listening deeply and exploring the experiences that shape who we are and how we connect with one another. Because when we truly hear each other's stories, we create the possibility for more inclusive communities, stronger relationships and positive change. If you believe understanding starts with listening, and change starts with conversation, this podcast is for you. Follow the show so you don't miss an episode. About the podcast Amplifying the Unseen shares honest social stories and elevates voices too often left unheard. Through conversations on social injustice, anti-racism, parenting, SEND and inequality, Kirsty explores lived experience, advocacy and the realities of pushing for change in systems not designed for everyone. It's a podcast for those who believe listening is a radical act, and that real change starts by amplifying what has been unseen. Amplifying the Unseen is also a storytelling, advocacy and leadership platform, now proudly a Community Interest Company (CIC), for the people, experiences and truths that so often get overlooked. Because everyone deserves to be seen, heard and included in the conversations that shape their lives. About Kirsty Reed Kirsty is a voice amplifier, change catalyst and system challenger with over 20 years' experience driving social change rooted in advocacy, lived experience and community leadership. She is both an expert by profession and an expert by experience, bringing the two together to ensure the voices and needs of local communities sit at the heart of decision-making. As a mum of four and a grandmother of four, Kirsty's work is deeply grounded in real life. She partners with individuals, community leaders and organisations to foster equity, inclusion and collective action, working alongside people rather than implementing change to them. Kirsty is the Founder and Director of Amplifying the Unseen CIC and Director of Magpie Collaborative Ltd. Known for designing and delivering meaningful, engaging workshops tailored to each organisation, she creates safe and courageous spaces for difficult conversations, collaboration and innovation. Through her facilitation and advisory work, Kirsty helps teams move beyond intention into action, driving purposeful, people-centred social impact and sustainable change. Connect with Kirsty: LinkedIn: Kirsty Reed Instagram: amplifying_the_unseen Website: www.amplifyingtheunseen.org
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What do you do when September arrives, the school gates open, and your child isn’t walking through them? In this episode of Amplifying the Unseen, Kirsty Reed unpacks the unexpected grief and complex emotions that come when a child is no longer able to attend school - not by choice, but because the system simply can’t meet their needs. Drawing from her family’s complex journey she reflects on the sense of loss, guilt, and the challenges of navigating judgment from others. She talks openly about mourning everyday rituals like school runs, assemblies, and after-school clubs. Yet as she shares moments of sadness and frustration, Kirsty finds solidarity with other parents and home-educating communities, and calls on professionals to look beyond numbers to the real stories and needs of families. Highlights: 00:00 Welcome to Amplifying the Unseen with Kirsty Reed 00:31 Grieving the school run: an unexpected family journey 03:09 Home education as a last resort after system challenges 04:10 September is harder: disrupted schooling and home tutors 05:15 Finding ways to meet social needs outside of school 06:22 Reimagining childhood: play and learning outside strict academics 07:14 Knowing summer’s freedom makes September’s transition tougher 08:19 Kirsty Reed’s own grief and feeling overwhelmed by loss 10:01 Questioning the system and the feeling of guilt versus grief 13:00 Waiting for support and the irony of a “regulated” child out of school 14:15 Missing out: school dinners, sports day, clubs and milestones 18:24 Community opinions and constant scrutiny as a home-educating parent
What happens when the school run becomes one of the hardest parts of your day and nobody seems to notice? In this episode of Amplifying the Unseen, Kirsty Reed explores the realities behind the daily school run: the stress, isolation and struggles that can sit beneath the surface. Drawing on nearly two decades of experience as a mum, Kirsty shares how her youngest child’s transition into school—and particularly from Reception to Year 1—became increasingly difficult. As a young, summer-born, neurodivergent child, the pressures of formal education led to escalating distress and school avoidance. Kirsty also opens up about the loneliness parents can experience when their child’s needs don’t fit the norm, sharing honest stories of tearful school runs, school gates and moments when even well-meaning staff didn’t know how to help. At the heart of the episode is a simple but powerful message: connection matters. Sometimes a smile, a check-in or an honest conversation can be the lifeline someone needs. Highlights: 00:00 Welcome to Amplifying the Unseen with Kirsty Reed 00:28 When the school run becomes tough 01:00 Two decades of school runs and different “mum” identities 02:15 The impact of the pandemic on the working parent’s school run 03:20 Craving community with her fourth child and new lessons learned 04:04 Disruption in schooling and unique joys/difficulties of her youngest 04:38 The rare luxury of a swimming pool at her child’s school 05:23 Early challenges in nursery and reception 05:42 Joining a mum group chatand drifting away from it 06:07 Strong views on homework, seasoned by 19 years of parenting 07:30 Changes in routine: walking, biking, and meeting her child’s needs 11:41 The gap between her child’s experience and the world sees it 12:00 On emotional school avoidance: a topic for future episodes 13:43 Longing for support at the school gate 16:10 A call to small acts to open connection 18:35 Change starts with listening and not looking away.
What do we do with our anger when we see something that isn’t right? In this second episode of Amplifying the Unseen, Kirsty explores the journey from rage and frustration towards hope, action and collective change. Drawing on her experiences as a mother, grandmother and advocate, Kirsty reflects on a lifelong awareness of injustice—from childhood experiences and family debates to working within systems that often feel deeply flawed. She explores how anger sparked by professional frustrations, systemic barriers in maternity and education, and the exhaustion of everyday advocacy can become a catalyst for change rather than something that leaves us feeling powerless. Kirsty also considers the growing sense of numbness and disconnection in our communities, asking what happens when we stop responding to injustice and whether staying neutral is really possible when something is fundamentally wrong. Ultimately, this is an episode about turning personal pain into collective empowerment, and finding small acts of hope, kindness and connection even when the world feels overwhelming. Highlights: 00:00 Welcome to Amplifying the Unseen with Kirsty Reed 02:24 Working within systems and balancing rage and hope 04:04 Early signs of injustice and family stories from childhood 05:10 Politics at the dinner table and growing up in a monocultural community 06:12 The physical and emotional toll of witnessing injustice 07:24 Misunderstanding rage for anger and its impact on accessing services 09:22 Experiencing and advocating through maternity services 13:12 Being an empath and using lived experience to support others 14:31 Social media, vulnerability, and the importance of hope 17:23 Politics with a "small p" and focusing on people, not just policy 18:27 Acting as a bridge between communities and decision-makers 19:49 The challenge and importance of political neutrality for advocacy 20:22 Sacrifice, calling out injustice, and creating community through hope 26:09 Advice for turning rage or numbness into hope, starting small 29:47 Empathy for others struggling to access their rights 32:19 Encouraging hope, kindness, and small acts to uplift others.