Bird Brain | S8E35 (334): What Are Their Actions Secretly Telling You About Your Place in Their Life?
The Bird Brain PodcastShow Notes
In this episode, we talk about one of the clearest, yet most overlooked signs of how someone truly feels about you: how they consider you. Not what they say. Not the vibe. Not the history. But whether you show up in their thoughts, their plans, and their curiosity. We explore the difference between people who naturally make space for you in their future — the friends who plan with you without hesitation — versus the people you keep planning around, who never once include you back. We also break down the subtle social cues, like being the only one asking questions, initiating conversations, or investing emotional energy that never gets returned. This episode is about clarity. About recognizing where you're genuinely valued and where you're just trying to earn a place. And ultimately, it’s about learning to stop mistaking effort for reciprocity, and letting people’s consideration (or lack of it) tell you the truth.
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