1KHO 955: All Behavior Makes Sense (Even When it Doesn’t Seem To) | Robyn Gobbel, Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors,
The 1000 Hours Outside PodcastShow Notes
The child who struggles most with behavior may be the very child who needs more recess, more play, and more connection—not another consequence.
Robyn Gobbel, author of Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors, joins Ginny Yurich for a deeply compassionate conversation about what is really happening beneath children's most confusing behaviors. She explains how the nervous system shifts between connection and protection, why children can lose access to their best thinking in moments of distress, and how everyday experiences like playing outside, moving their bodies, or even taking a bath can help restore a sense of safety.
But this conversation goes beyond understanding children. Gobbel offers a powerful perspective for parents who feel exhausted, discouraged, or ashamed of their own reactions. From the surprising importance of play to the transformative role of self-compassion, this episode offers a different way to see difficult behavior—and the people behind it.
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