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The Agonies of Jealousy

The School of Life

Summary

Marketers are increasingly vocal about the phenomenon of "bull spend," where advertising budgets are allocated to metrics that initially appear impressive but fail to deliver real value when scrutinized by financial officers. This trend is highlighted in discussions around the effectiveness of marketing strategies, particularly in the context of social media platforms like LinkedIn, which offers targeted advertising options based on company and job title.

In a more personal exchange, a conversation unfolds between two individuals reflecting on a recent party. Tensions arise as one partner expresses jealousy over the other's interaction with a man at the event, leading to a debate about trust and boundaries in their relationship. The dialogue reveals underlying insecurities and the complexities of navigating social interactions, particularly when it comes to perceived attention from others.

Show Notes

Never feel bad about not being mature about jealousy: sometimes wisdom means recognising when wisdom isn't an option.

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