The Francesca Psychology Podcast

Instantly Disarm Condescending People (Without Losing Your Cool) - Dr Shade

The Francesca Psychology Podcast

Show Notes

Dr Shadé is a behavioural researcher, and award-winning peak performance educator. And her new book Big Trust is coming out the 22nd Jan. https://www.shadezahrai.com/

00:00 Intro 02:09 Her New Book 04:21 How To Master You Mindset 09:18 The Key To Behavioural Change 11:11 How To Further Your Career 13:10 Tricks To Start Speaking With More Confidence 16:35 The Humanness Courage Matrix1 9:47 How To Manage Change 29:40 How To Increase Your Magnetism - 2 Types Of Charisma 35:40 How To Be A Charismatic Presenter 40:00 How To Impress An Interviewer 49:00 The Question About Strengths & Weaknesses 58:00 How To Respond To Someone Being Condescending 01:03:20 How To Say No To Your Boss 01:06:20 How To Increase Your Credibility At Work 01:15:00 How To Be More Likeable At Work 01:18:50 How To Respond When Someone Takes Credit For Your Work

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